don't date her because she's a virgin. she's gonna get attached.
her last guy did her wrong. she's got trust issues.
she got daddy issues.
she just got issues.
all that may be true, but you've got issues, too. see, the difference with men and women is that women (at least attempt to) deal with their issues. you guys fuck us over, we talk to our girlfriends, cry about it for a few months, weeks, or, hopefully just days, and then we get over it. but you men don't cry. you don't talk about it. you don't do shit but act like you're over it. your insecurities are just as great as ours. there's no way you're gonna convince me that you were born that confident. that you think you look that good. that your dumbass could actually become that accomplished. we're the beautiful, intelligent ones with limitless potential, and you recognize that and feel threatened by it. you decide that if you can't beat us, actually, you beat us. physically, verbally, emotionally. and then you say sorry, because you actually are. you're a sorry excuse for a man. but, don't worry about it. you'll get yours someday.
but for all of you who actually wanna lift us up, try a kind word or three. try being genuinely interested in what we're interested in. try making us smile instead of cry. try listening. and you're right, it's not all about us. and we want to be there for you, too. but we can't do that if you don't speak to us. let us in. let us know what's going on. let us give you a kind word or three. let us be interested in what you're interested in. let us make you smile. we want to listen. but you've gotta meet us halfway.
bitch do you know my life.
ReplyDeletethat doesn't work. men don't generally talk about our problems. We draw inward. double standard. "and that's the way it is"--Tupac
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